My Bad Habit

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I seem to have a nasty habit that I’ve been carrying with me for at least 10 years now. The earliest memory I have dates back to right before I got pregnant with my first child.

It was then I decided I wanted to learn how to play the guitar; acoustic, to be more specific. My mother in law loaned me one she had laying around, I picked up a beginner’s guide and set to work. Within a month or two, I became pregnant and immediately gave up the guitar to put all my focus on my pregnancy and the new life growing inside me.

I never did pick it back up again.

Before I got pregnant with my fourth child, I took up running. Then I quit that, too. I attempted to start up again, but it quickly dissolved.

Two years ago, I joined the Bible in 90 Days challenge, and I quit in Acts. (Isn’t that terrible?! Finally get to the “easy” reading and I stopped)!

I’m a quitter. There’s no way to sugar coat it. I don’t follow through on much of anything. I rarely finish books. I never finish Bible studies. I begin things with a bang, but they quickly fizzle out. This is a terrible habit to have!

There is so much noise around and rather than finish what I’ve started, I want to hurry up and move on to the next thing.

Do you ever get like that?

I never fully experience what I’ve set out to do because I don’t finish what I’ve started. It’s a terrible trend to set in front of my children, too. In fact, my daughter (9) has picked up on this habit and is following in my footsteps. Yikes!

So what can be done to buck this trend?

  1. Remain consistent. Do whatever it is I set out to do every single day. If  I allow any gaps, my interest begins to wane.
  2. Don’t take on new projects. Stick to one thing at a time and do it well.
  3. Reward yourself at the end. Sometimes we need a little incentive to keep us moving forward.

Once upon a time I had another blog called, “Journey to a Gracious Woman“. Yea. I quit that, too. But it’s a good thing I did, because Joyful Mothering wouldn’t exist.

Writing has been the one thing these past 2 years that I have kept at. Oh, I did start an eBook and quit that. Maybe I should pick that up again?

This bad habit won’t push me beyond my limits, and I need to be stretched. It’s the only way I’ll grow.

So today’s the day. It’s the day I quit quitting. The first thing I’m going to do is finish my eBook.

What have you started that you’ve never finished?

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Hi friends.

I know I haven’t written on here in the past week and will not be writing here this week. On April 27th, my father in law passed away, so our family has been dealing with the blow to that. He was taken out to his home town this weekend for the funeral and burial, so we had to travel 6 hours for that and stayed the weekend to be with family. We just got home last night.

I’m allowing myself to take this week off and I’ll be back on Monday. Thank you for grace and would you keep us in your prayers as we learn to live with this loss? Thanks so much.

This One’s For You

This song is meant for YOU. Read the lyrics carefully my sweet friends. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!

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When You Have a House Full of Sick

*Update* the stomach flu has hit our home. Not out of the woods yet!

The last two weeks were spent caring for sick babies and needless to say everything has been put on hold. While my darlings are finally recovering, we are picking up the pieces of a messy home and trying to settle back into routine.

I haven’t had a chance to get the next part of The Resolution for Women post together for this week. Next week, I will be sharing at Homemaker’s Challenge on Thursday, so I dare say it may be another two weeks before I post the next title.

I am in no way discouraged. This is all part of the way life dances. I can either fight the steps, or move with them.

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Re-Thinking Traditional American Christmas

Whoa. Say what?!

Got your attention didn’t I? Yea, God’s been doing that to me lately, too. But hear me out on this, mmm kay?

Wish lists. Credit cards. Stress over who to buy for and what to buy. How much to spend on each child and worry about how to explain why they got one [expensive] gift while his sister got five [less expensive] gifts. Greed. Discontent. Covetousness.

Seriously. That’s all I see surrounding Christmas and it even creeps up in my own home. I don’t like it. It’s not the way Christmas was meant to be celebrated. Giving, yes. But not in hopes that someone is giving to us. But rather that we are giving–and training our children in the same.

St. Nicholas, for example, didn’t bring toys to greedy children. He took money to needy families.  How is it we have allowed these things that we are warned against in the Bible, to creep in during Christmas? Why is it OK during this time of the year? Might I suggest an alternative? Even just a slight alteration?

Ban the wish lists from your children, and even your own. Lay it aside. Grab a clean piece of reality and fill it in with those in need. Serious. There are cultures who don’t even have one verse of the Bible. Not one. Because it hasn’t been translated into their language. Give the gift of God’s word. What greater gift is there?!

Or how about the gift of chickens so one can have eggs? Or dental care, God’s Word, building materials, or any number of things we take for granted.

Sometimes the truth is hard, but friends, we are so spoiled here. We really are! We are a blessed people!! Let’s not waste it, friends. Let’s use what God has given us to truly love others. It’s the Gospel lived out in it’s simplest form–giving to the least of these. Will you help?

Will you share with your children how God has blessed them so they can bless others? That it might be a sacrifice to let some things go, but isn’t it worth it?

Let’s help our children learn to see outside of themselves–let us look outside ourselves. As so hard as it is in a culture that screams for more stuff. We don’t know anything else, do we? It takes a lot of work and shift in perspective to really grab a hold of something counter cultural.

Let God lead you and comfort you. Let Him assure you your gift won’t go to waste.

I am not suggesting to not bless your children. But I do challenge you to rethink the method and the message of Christmas. Rather than buying all the latest and greatest, focus on the needs of your children.

Do they need new clothes or shoes? School supplies or educational materials? Creative arts equipment or supplies? Things that will help them grow and nurture their gifts and talents.

This may be the only time you see me write about Christmas. Even I have been challenged by these very things, because I am still wrestling with the comfort of what I’ve always known. What I’ve always known simply isn’t satisfying this souls thirst to love beyond my own comfort.

It’s like, one day I just woke up and saw the great needs I didn’t see before. I can’t explain it, except that it’s God moving in me. Molding my heart. Teaching me about compassion and what love really looks like. If you have to, start small. We all need to start somewhere–and somewhere is better than nowhere.

My goal isn’t to push anything on anyone–but to challenge you’re thinking–to offer you a new perspective–to show you that God does call us to something greater than ourselves.

What are we going to do with it?

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