Come visit me at the Better Mom today as I share some false truths about love and unveil what love in action looks like.
Redefining Love
What Katie Davis Taught Me About Mothering
Katie Davis answered the call to “go” as a missionary, into another country when she was 18 years old. There, Amazima (which means “truth” in Luganda) was born. Today she is 23 years old and is a mother to 13 girls. Read to the end for more details.
As I read through Katie’s book, I learned a lot about myself and my own mothering. She has taught me to stretch myself in ways I never had before; in ways I’d never even considered.
Katie taught me that in order to give what wasn’t within my grasp to give, I needed to pray for it. That’s not my first reaction, typically. My default is to just let go of the idea (aka giving up). Not exactly the way I want to live my life, of course. I’m not talking stuff, but more than the basics of get-through-the-day necessities.
Katie prays fervently for the things she needs as a mother in Uganda. And not just a mother to those living under her roof, but to anyone who comes to her door, or the “one” in front of her in the village, whose eyes are just desperate for love.
The passion she conveys for the people in Uganda wasn’t her own doing. God planted that there. Even she can’t explain it’s tug on her heart. Though she loves her friends and family in the States, she left them to answer God’s call on her life.
What am I leaving behind in order to fill the call God has for me as a mother? Am I willing to let go, with reckless abandon, to answer this call? How could I find passion through day-to-day living?
It got me thinking — what’s holding me back from asking God for more passion for my own children? To fervently seek Him and ask Him to equip me, not just with strength to “get through” the day, but with real passion and a new kind of, deeper love for my children.
There is always room for growth in our lives for loving others.
She also taught me that my mother heart can extend beyond my own home and children. In Uganda, not only is Katie mother to 13 girls living in her home, but throughout the village itself. The people know her as “Mommy” or “Mommy Katie” or even “Auntie Katie”, because they know of her mother heart for people.
She constantly lives her life looking for lessons within her circumstances. When she experiences something, she looks for what God wants her to learn from it.
Seeing her life makes me ashamed I ever complained — and I don’t want to forget and fall back into those places. She takes no credit for the strength ensued to accomplish what God has called her to. She fully acknowledges the Lord’s hand in her life. She simply answered and made herself available.
Am I making myself available? To my children as well as to those in need around me {or even away from me}?
Part of me longs for what she does because of the place it puts her in her relationship with God. She is required to be much more dependent on God, thus deepening her relationship with Him.
Without even needing to be in Uganda, I had already known just how hard it was to depend on God in a place where everything is handed to me. How I can just walk to the fridge and get something out when I’m hungry. I already knew how easily distracted I can become with the Internet, television, and every other hindrance to just being with God. She only confirmed my own struggles when she spoke of her struggles of returning to the States for brief periods of time.
Most of us won’t be moved to action until God unveils our eyes to see the reality.
The Book: Kisses From Katie, a must read for everyone.
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This One’s For You
This song is meant for YOU. Read the lyrics carefully my sweet friends. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!
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Daily Bible Time with Young Kids
Today’s guest post is written by Susan of Christian Mothering.
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It’s 9:45 AM; the day’s getting away from you. You have time to focus on only one of these before scrambling out the door with your four young kiddos: snack, shoes, or Bible-reading. Which do you pick?
I know, I wouldn’t choose the Bible either. It’s not that I don’t love the Word of God; I do. It’s not that I don’t know beyond all knowing that it’s life for me and my children, more important than virtually anything else that could fill our days. It’s just that, amidst the never-ending, here-and-now demands of life with little people, it can so easily slip quietly out of our days. It shouldn’t be that way, but sometimes (let’s be honest) it is.
Life events happen – the arrival of a new baby, kicking off a new schedule for older children, a family vacation. A solid Bible-reading groove can so easily give way, for one reason or another, to a dry season where the Book is shelved for weeks before I even realize it.
There’s more than one way to bring the Bible back into the center, and it doesn’t have to be a hard or time-intensive process. Realizing this has hugely helped me get back on track when I find we’ve fallen out of the groove.
Here are five ideas to simply and quickly get back into daily Bible engagement with little kids:
1. Take 5 minutes at breakfast or dinner to read aloud from a children’s Bible or do a page together out of a children’s devotional. During or right after meals works well for us, because we’re all already gathered in one place and actively occupied with an activity that cuts down on squabble. We’re currently alternating between the Big Picture Story Bible (which works very well for our 2 through 6 crowd) and My ABC Bible verses: Hiding God’s Word in Little Hearts. More fantastic resource suggestions for the young crowd are listed in Christin’s Devotions for Ages Five and Under.
2. Listen to an audio version of a children’s Bible in the car. The Jesus Storybook Bible comes with a CD with fantastic audio presentation of the text. I keep it in the car, and we sometimes listen to one or two tracks while driving and then discuss the passage afterwards.
3. Learn one song from a Seeds Family Worship album per month. The Seeds albums are great because the songs lyrics are unadulterated Bible verses – nothing else. Once you know the words to a song, you know a new Bible verse. And the tunes are catchy and not annoying.
4. Use Bible verse coloring pages for coloring- time. My kids love to color, and occupying the younger ones while the older does school work is mandatory. Printing coloring pages that feature Bible verses is practical and can be a jumping off point for discussion about the Scriptures. Colored pictures can be hung on the wall or fridge for ongoing reference, till a new page gets colored.
5. Incorporate a few theme-related verses into your daily household activities and chores like “clothe yourself with Christ” (Rom 13:14) when dressing for the day, or “create in me a clean heart” (Ps 51:10) when tidying up a room. We haven’t done this yet, but it’s a cool idea and one that, with a just a little forethought and intentionality, could be a cool trigger and mental practice for mother and child alike.
It’s crucial for us moms to be in God’s word ourselves, drinking from the well of Life so that we can abide in Him as we walk through days that can be wearying with our little ones. But it’s also crucial that we’re bringing our children back to the well, acquainting them with how to draw the water and accustoming them to its taste.
May all of us, mothers and kids alike – drink often and deeply.
Susan Arico is mother to four children, ages 6 and under. She writes for Christianity Today on women‘s issues and consults on a very part-time basis to Christian nonprofit organizations. She is passionate about the importance of shaping children’s souls in a Christ-ward direction and blogs at Christian Mothering.
An Invitation to a {New} Pursuit of Proverbs 31
Do you ever just get frustrated with the Proverbs 31 woman? Do her ideals intimidate you or make you feel like a failure because you just can’t seem to measure up?
Did you know that is not the intent of these Proverbs 31 verses?
Come on…let’s take a journey…
Amy has captured the heart of these verses and here at Joyful Mothering, Amy and I are going to lead you through this study, answer your questions, and empower you to understand your purpose so you can live it out.
Amy has the courage to go against the grain of what seems like the most obvious way to interpret the Proverbs 31 woman. But in fact, she is much better than we imagined. She really isn’t all that different from each of us–it’s all about perspective, friends. But it’s also more than that.
I invite you to discover the unveiling of the myths and replace them with truth.
On Monday, March 5th, we are going to begin right here on Joyful Mothering, with chapter 1.
There will be exclusive videos of Amy, sharing her heart with you and even including some things which are not in the book.
There will be printables for you, and the community here is open for the taking.
Pursuit of Proverbs 31 releases on February 27th. But before that, FIVE of you will win a pre-release copy to get a little head start.
If you are interested in joining the 10-week study hosted here each Monday from March 5th – May 7th, sign up on the linky below. You will need a copy of the eBook, “Pursuit of Proverbs 31“. It is only $4.99 and releases on Feb. 27th. You do not need to have a blog to participate. If you need a URL to insert, you can use your Facebook or Twitter account if you have one, or just put my url in there. But please include your email address so I can contact you if you win the book. I will also send out one reminder email of the upcoming study.
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